It has always been a matter to look into when it comes to flirting. If you have a friend who is so good and getting girl’s attention by just speaking few words and never missing a shot and you feel he is using some sort of magic because you never seem to make any progress when you try, then this is the right article to read. Just like the name of this article implies “flirting for dummies,” you will find some of the greatest tips ever used at getting girls. This information that you are about to obtain is timeless because its effect are psychological which means it will work in any time and age so long your target is a woman. If you are in a hurry and you want a quick fix, then this article might just be one of the articles you should skip over because the information in it will take you a little time to apply but if you are patient enough to read this article to the end, I can assure you that you will be going home every night with a girl until you are tired. So read on to get more tips.

Are Your Confident?

Perhaps, one of the reasons why you have failed severally on this issue is because you lack confidence. In flirting with a woman, one of the major ingredients for success is confidence and you need lots of it.

Have you noticed that there are some guys who may not even be as physically attractive as you but are attracting more girls to themselves than you have ever done? Have you also noticed that some guys don’t have to talk too much to get a girl to like them or even make friends with them? Like I said earlier in this article, these things are not magic; you only need the right ingredient to make it work for you too. The people who seem to have this attraction thing working for them almost perfectly have nothing more than just confidence. If you want to have it the same way too, then you need confidence as well.

Confidence is a factor when it comes to attracting women. Girls will always respond to you when you have confidence because they can literally sense it with the way you look, how you talk, and the way you walk.

One of the interesting things you need to know is that confidence can be great and at the same time bad. So, it is important that you know the amount of confidence you need to be the perfect woman attracting machine.

So how do I improve on my confidence?

That’s a great question and to reward your eagerness to know more, I will answer it just rightly.

• The first and most important thing that will help you boost your confidence is to know that anything is possible. The fact that someone was able to get a girl without so much hassle means that you too can do it. That is the first secret to boosting your confidence.
• Secondly, you need to modify your behavior. The reason why you are finding it difficult to muster enough confidence to get you through to the heart of that girl you’ve been dreaming about is because of your present behavior. So if you open yourself to change and start doing the things you were scared of doing before, it will not be too long before your confidence will be doubled, tripled or even quadrupled to get the job done.
• Don’t be afraid of making mistakes: this happens almost in every area of a man’s life. There are too many successes you would have attained by now, but because you are afraid to take the first step, you lose the opportunity to every other thing. Start believing in yourself.
• Like And Respect Yourself: you will be amazed at how much this can affect your life. The greatest way you can kill your confidence is if you don’t like or respect yourself. Someone rightfully said “someone who likes themselves will learn to respect themselves and will learn to respect others as well.” One of the easy ways to get rid of fear and start having confidence is if you start liking yourself. When you like yourself, it will reflect in the way you talk, dress, and move. You can be sure that people will sense this within you and when this happens, the ability to generally attract both female and male to yourself will be inherent.

Self-Hygiene

All the confidence in the world might not take you anywhere close to getting that girl if you don’t take good care of yourself. Girls are naturally clean people and would not want to associate with those that are unclean. So one of the best things you can do for yourself and improve your chances at getting her to like you is to ensure that you are in good shape.

Tips for self hygiene

• Always have your have groomed neatly. Ensure that the only place there is hair on your body is your hair (that’s the only place you are permitted to grow hair; any order place will mar your chances).
• Ensure that all your nails are kept clean, short and nice.
• Take your mouth seriously. Your teeth should always be clean, your breath fresh and your tongue scrapped. Get a tongue scrapper if you don’t have one and use it frequently, floss at least three times every day, better still after every meal and use mouthwash to rinse your mouth just as many times as you floss. If you have bad looking teeth, ensure they are fixed.
• Take your bath regularly. The best way to do so is to wash you three times with soap and clean water because body odor and dirt don’t easily. So, before you approach any lady for the purpose of flirting or any other purpose, make sure that you are properly cleaned up.
• Smell nicely at all times. Buy a good deodorant if you don’t have one and use frequently after taking your both to keep your body smelling nicely.
• Keep your socks clean at all times, one simple mistake might change her mind and that you don’t want…right?

Relax

As simple and concise as this word is, so many guys still find it hard to practice it when meeting a woman. There are too many things that would go wrong if you don’t learn to relax. The worst that will happen is that you will lose her, but in the process of losing her; too many things would have happened in between that will put her off like chattering. Women don’t like men who chatter and if you are acting like someone who is on his toes, then you will put her off so learn to relax. To put yourself at a relaxed state of mind, you must learn to disconnect yourself from a particular result. Things may not always work the way you plan them so you must learn to expect different outcomes. By so doing, you will not be afraid of losing her and if that fear is eliminated from your mind, the rest of the matter is as good as taken care of.

Start a Casual Conversation

This is one great tip in flirting for dummies. Women are more on the talking side, therefore, it is important that you know how to talk to them. Starting a casual conversation doesn’t have a particular format, all you have to do is observe when she is acting as though she needs help on a particular thing and offer a helping hand, such kind of incidents gives room for a casual conversation and from there you can take it to any level you want it, but ensure that you are not making your intention known from the first talk (this may differ in all women).

Make Eye Contact

Women always think a guy is bold when he is able to maintain eye contact during a conversation. Look into her eyes and hold your gaze a little bit longer than normal, but ensure that whatever you do, never stare at her for too long as that might make her feel uncomfortable…trust me, you don’t want her feeling this way if you really want to keep her talking for a longer time.

Use Body Language

Using body language rightly will help you greatly to make a girl like you. Show your confidences by standing upright with your shoulders well broaden and smile often but not excessively. Try as much as possible to respond with smart movement rather than jerk at every move she makes. Always keep your palms open and ensure that you pay attention to whatever she is saying by nodding your head when you need to.

This flirting for dummies should help jumpstart your attitude towards attracting a women. Ensure that you practice the things you read in this article. Read it as many times as possible until you can remember everything you need to do to get that girl hooked to you. I wish you success in your endeavor.

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